Grow with Kitty

〜かい (~kai) — A soft yes/no question

A warm "is it?" asked downward to someone close — it wants a yes or a no.

Formula (सूत्र ढाँचा)

Verb V普通形 + かい
い-adj い-adj (〜い) + かい
N N/な-adj [だ] + かい

Grammar rule (व्याकरण नियम र परिभाषा)

When to use it

  • Who says it matters a lot — it is mostly older men speaking to someone younger and close.
  • The sixty-year-old 先輩 in your factory may well say 「元気かい?」to you; that is warmth, not anger.

Meaning

「かい」turns a sentence into a yes/no question.

How to attach

  • Attaching it is easy: put かい straight onto the plain form (行く → 行くかい, 来る → 来るかい, 分かった → 分かったかい).
  • With a noun or a な-adjective, drop だ and add かい (元気だ → 元気かい, 休みだ → 休みかい).

Watch out

  • The danger: it only goes to friends and to people younger than you.
  • Saying 「元気かい?」to a 店長, a 課長 or any 先輩 treats them as your junior — one slip is enough to damage the relationship.
  • Upward it is always 「お元気ですか」.
  • This form is one to understand by ear, not to speak.

Examples (उदाहरणहरू)

元気かい?

げんきかい?

You doing all right? — an older 先輩 to someone younger

明日 来るかい?

あした くるかい?

Are you coming tomorrow?

店長には「お元気ですか」と 言います。

てんちょうには「おげんきですか」と いいます。

To your 店長 you say 「お元気ですか」.

Knowledge check (मिनी ज्ञान जाँच)

Question: 1/3

Which line can a 先輩 say to a 後輩, but a 後輩 can never say to a 先輩?

💡 Hint: Which direction does かい travel?

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