Grow with Kitty

〜かい (~kai) — A soft yes/no question

A warm "is it?" asked downward to someone close — it wants a yes or a no.

Formula (सूत्र ढाँचा)

V / い-adj plain attach directly
N / な-adj (だ なし) だ drops
かい yes or no?
目上には 使わない never upward

Grammar rule (व्याकरण नियम र परिभाषा)

「かい」turns a sentence into a yes/no question. Attaching it is easy: put かい straight onto the plain form (行く → 行くかい, 来る → 来るかい, 分かった → 分かったかい). With a noun or a な-adjective, drop だ and add かい (元気だ → 元気かい, 休みだ → 休みかい). Who says it matters a lot — it is mostly older men speaking to someone younger and close. The sixty-year-old 先輩 in your factory may well say 「元気かい?」to you; that is warmth, not anger. **⚠️ The danger:** it only goes to friends and to people younger than you. Saying 「元気かい?」to a 店長, a 課長 or any 先輩 treats them as your junior — one slip is enough to damage the relationship. Upward it is always 「お元気ですか」. This form is one to understand by ear, not to speak.

Examples (उदाहरणहरू)

元気かい

元気かい?

genki kai?

You doing all right? — an older 先輩 to someone younger

明日来るかい

明日 来るかい?

ashita kuru kai?

Are you coming tomorrow?

店長にはお元気ですかと 言います

店長には「お元気ですか」と 言います。

tenchou ni wa "ogenki desu ka" to iimasu.

To your 店長 you say 「お元気ですか」.

Knowledge check (मिनी ज्ञान जाँच)

Question: 1/3

Which line can a 先輩 say to a 後輩, but a 後輩 can never say to a 先輩?

💡 Hint: Which direction does かい travel?

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