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敬語の レベルを そろえる (keigo no reberu o soroeru) — Holding one level to the end

Once you start 敬語, the same level holds to the end of the sentence.

Formula (सूत्र ढाँचा)

うち me, my company
そと customer, other firm
尊敬語 only for そと
最後まで the same level

Grammar rule (व्याकरण नियम र परिभाषा)

Two mistakes happen a lot. **First — mixing levels.** Once you start 尊敬語, the ending must stay です・ます too. × 社長が そう おっしゃった. × 部長が 来られた よ. Correct: 社長が そう おっしゃいました. Showing respect in the middle of a sentence and then dropping into casual speech at the end is the mistake that jars most. **Second — raising yourself.** 尊敬語 never applies to your own actions: × 私が ごらんに なります. × 私が いらっしゃいます. In the same way, when you talk to a customer or another company you do not use 尊敬語 about your own 店長, 課長 or 社長 either — × 課長は 3時に 戻られます. Correct: 課長は 3時に 戻ります. A senior inside the company is still your own side once an outsider is listening.

Examples (उदाहरणहरू)

課長は帰られました

課長は もう 帰られましたか。

kachou wa mou kaeraremashita ka.

Has the section chief already gone home?

お客様課長は戻ります

お客様、課長は 3時に 戻ります。

okyakusama, kachou wa sanji ni modorimasu.

Sir/Madam, the section chief will be back at 3.

社長がそうおっしゃいました

社長が そう おっしゃいました。

shachou ga sou osshaimashita.

That is what the president said.

Knowledge check (मिनी ज्ञान जाँच)

Question: 1/3

Telling a customer "my 課長 is back at 3" — which is right?

💡 Hint: The 課長 is on your own side.

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